You are interested in women needing spanking partners. It can be very frustrating when trying to find ladies in your area who have this particular sexual proclivity. Fortunately, there is a rather simple method.
™
You may well have found a few spanking fetish sites. My advice: avoid them. I can give you two good reasons. They tend to be very expensive; niche dating sites always tend to charge a lot of money. They also tend to have very few members. If you live in a medium-sized city like me, this last point can be a real problem.
What you should do is join one of the well-known mainstream dating sites. Pick any one you like, just be sure to choose one of the biggest; those with millions of members. These sites tend to be cheap or free (indeed, most of the better ones offer free members more features than most paid dating sites). They also give you an infinitely more important benefit: they enable you to find a lot more local women than one of those niche sites. And all you have to do is select the local women who share your spanking fetish. Some sites allow you to type in a search for this fetish; others allow you to tick a box; but almost all of these sites allow you, somehow, to filter the huge list of local women for women needing spanking partners.
So, speaking from personal experience, I can say it is best to avoid the specialist dating websites for spanking enthusiasts and, instead, cleverly filter local women who share your interest on big dating communities that offer free memberships and lots more features.
Some submissive men dream of entering an alternative relationship with a woman who becomes known as their Mistress. The dream for most men, however, rarely becomes a reality. These men pour over mistress looking for slave personal ads. They join numerous expensive dating sites for the alternative community. All to no avail. The sad fact is, there are more men wishing to enter this kind of relationship than there are like-minded women. And this is where my article comes in.
I want to arm you with all the knowledge necessary to help you find a dominant woman. The next few paragraphs are short but packed with everything I know to help you. And this information has proven to help hundreds of other submissive men.
You should accommodation begin your search for a mistress looking for slave men by getting involved in online social communities. Like all of my suggestions, these are, of course, all free. Get yourself accounts on sites like Facebook, MySpace, Twitter and YouTube. You see, these sites have large, dedicated groups of people interested in the dominant-submissive lifestyle. Once you have created your free accounts, you should join relevant groups, and get involved. Send friend requests to dominant women; some will even notice you and send you friend invitations.
Twitter and Facebook are two excellent networks. You can search on twitter based on keywords. Type in the word "mistress" and you will have thousands of women to "follow." Likewise, Facebook has hundreds of relevant groups for submissive men to join for free. On these groups you should post a message like "Please friend me. I'm a submissive man seeking a dominant woman as my mistress."
Consider looking at online classifieds. You will get dozens of emails from internet marketers, certainly, but in amongst those will be real dominant ladies seeking men like yourself. Craigslist is a good place to find mistress looking for slave personal ads. And, of course, the site is also totally free of charge.
You should also take a look at Flickr. Although this is a photo-sharing community, provided free by Yahoo!, it has a huge community of submissives and dominants. You can take part in the community, friend people, and chat.
